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What Is Emotion Focused Therapy, and Why Is It Considered the Gold Standard for Couples?
If you've researched couples therapy at all, you've probably run into the letters "EFT." It's one of the most talked-about approaches in the field, and for good reason — it's also one of the most rigorously studied. What EFT Actually Stands For Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) was developed by Dr. Sue Johnson in the 1980s, built on attachment theory — the same research that explains why humans need secure emotional bonds throughout life, not just in infancy. The core idea is tha
Olivia LaMothe
Aug 303 min read


Why Do We Keep Having the Same Argument? Breaking Repetitive Conflict Cycles
You've had this fight before. Maybe not these exact words, but this shape — same tone, same sore spots, same ending where nothing actually gets resolved and you both just... do that thing you always do. If it feels like you and your partner are stuck replaying the same argument in different outfits, you're noticing something real, and it's more common than you'd think. It's Rarely About the Dishes Most repeat arguments aren't really about the thing they appear to be about. Th
Olivia LaMothe
Aug 153 min read


Evaluating the Value of Couples Therapy: Exploring Couples Therapy Benefits
When relationships face challenges, it’s natural to wonder if seeking help is the right step. Couples therapy offers a supportive space to explore feelings, improve communication, and rebuild connection. I want to share insights about the value of couples therapy and how it can gently guide you toward a healthier, more fulfilling partnership. Whether you’re navigating conflict, seeking deeper understanding, or simply wanting to strengthen your bond, couples therapy can be a p
Olivia LaMothe
Mar 243 min read


The Healing Benefits of Trauma-Informed Care
Trauma can leave deep marks on our hearts and minds. When we face difficult experiences, healing feels like a distant hope. But trauma-informed care offers a gentle path forward. It recognizes the pain and helps us rebuild trust, safety, and strength. I want to share how trauma-informed care can transform lives and bring lasting healing. Understanding Trauma-informed Care Trauma-informed care advantages lie in the way this approach respects your story and your pace. It is not
Olivia LaMothe
Mar 73 min read
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